Pandora's Box

Have you ever felt that u have all the happiness around you? If you are an optimist you will say i always keep myself happy and things which is beyond our control makes you learn how to stay good in your life ,i think positive ,things which have gone wrong is also for our betterment and what not? .....On the other hand If you are a pessimist then ,this question has always one answer and that is 'NO'.
I am neither a hardcore Optimist nor a deadly pessimist and at the same time ,mixture of both.When few things which nobody around me are able to take,I come strongly against it,may be to show others that i am more mature than my age.But few small occasions have devastated me like the bundle of cards,which i consider that it was impossible to stop it! Whereas others consider it very trivial.
This vicissitude at different point of times in my life has left me puzzled and i always look for its solution.One of my friend had suggested that I can make myself stronger and stronger to overcome this miserable situation.Having said that,to become stronger you need to come across small upsets every now and then. I have started finding these upsets challenging to me to make myself stronger...hahaha but my problem became endless.......lexicographer calls it Pandora's Box.